first off, i searched but couldnt find what i needed. i am putting them in and things were going good, i just am having trouble connecting the wires with the little red wire taps, I am here (at what the pic says below), can anybody help??? please dont say connect the two with the red tap inbetween. I know that is what i need to do, i just cant figure out how??? it slips out, should i tape it or what.