Well, after playing with the shfiter and dealing with the vibration I decided to end it.
Basically what, I did very neatly was wrap the large spring with a layer of electrical tape very tightly, make sure you fold the tape on the ends so if covers the spring on the inside when it fits on the metal tabs. So far after 1k Miles, it's alittle harder to get into reverse, but the shifter is SILENT. I have not gotten it to vibrate yet. Just sharing alittle tip for everyone who has one and the vibration and noise driving them nuts.