i started my car this morning and i had left the lights turned on from the night before, so when i started the car they turned on for an instant and then went off. I checked the fuses and they are fine. what do you guys think it is? i thought i'd try to replace the relay but the parts store i went to said they needed to special order it and its $78. so i'm hoping this isnt the problem but i dont see what else it would be. any ideas?