Same here. Unless I really need it, I will only buy things if they are going to be shipped USPS.Honestly this is the only way i deal with us sellers. IT has never failed me.
UPS is the absolute worst!
Fedex is inconsistent, sometimes i pay, sometimes not... IE. i got coilovers, they came in two boxes, first box nothing, second box i had to pay duties on declared value.
Seriously just tell them to ship usps and mark as a gift w/ full insurance.